By Israel Ramirez | Staff Writer |
Can’t live with them, can’t live without them. Attractive from head to toe, back to heel how can we not love them?
Appearance, personality and intelligence are the attributes that attract me the most in a woman. The appearance of a woman says a lot about who she is and what she portrays herself to be.
Long, blonde, wavy hair, green eyes, and a body of an hourglass are not something to complain about, right?
I have been in a relationship for four years and counting; as crazy as it may sound, my girlfriend is neither blonde or green-eyed.
But that is just it; though my girlfriend did not fit in any of my physical ideas, she is better than that—she is real.
Appearance at first glance is important because to me, it shows a woman’s self-confidence demonstrating her reassurance in herself.
How a woman comes across physically will always catch my attention first, but it is not always the prime attraction.
Women should not mistake her physicality being the only factor men are interested in.
In the same way that physical appearance matters, personality and intelligence both go a long way to keep me hooked.
A woman’s personality accounts for more than half of the reason why I continue to show interest towards her.
It keeps me on my toes because it is the personality that speaks and acts in the relationship, not the way one appears to be.
There is seriously nothing more attractive than a woman full of ambition, determination, and knowing exactly what she wants.
“A mix of personality and intelligence is perfect, I’m looking for somebody to stick around,” said student Justin Camarena.
This is simply because a person’s look will only introduce the surface, while the personality will take one to places deeper than any traits.
Even though I find personality more intriguing the majority of society thinks otherwise.
Today, in social media, physical appearance is portrayed as the most important thing in finding a woman attractive.
As much as I enjoy watching women take photos in their workout gear, drinking their protein shakes, and traveling, I would enjoy a girl showing off her intelligence much more.
Not every girl on social media follows this lifestyle, but a substantial amount of them represent themselves in this manner.
Women should continue to maintain their routine style of posting without forgetting to showcase their intelligence.
Exhibiting their IQ rather than their appearance is what many women on social media lack.
It is important to realize that each quality plays a significant role in the way they carry themselves.
These are three of the many characteristics women have that may gravitate men towards them.
Do not restrict yourself or feel that these things I have mentioned are the only things that make a woman beautiful.
All I know is that ladies, if you think all you have to offer is your looks, you are mistaken—showcase your mind and soul because those will always be the things that keep anyone from anywhere, hooked.